Acts 18:1-8

Each Sabbath, you knew where to find Paul—at the synagogue. Where are we each Sabbath? This walk with God only really works when we make Him a priority. For believers, gathering with the church is an absolute must, not only for our own well-being but also for the benefit of others. We are each gifted in our own unique way, endowed by the Father with abilities and talents that are meant to bless those around us. We each have something to bring to the table, but that only works if we come to the table.

I am amazed these days at how "optional" church has become for some. Then they wonder why their lives are falling apart. Often, when we receive calls from people asking for help, one of our first questions is, "Where do you go to church?" The answers vary, but the same pattern often emerges: they are not part of a community of believers and, therefore, do not have healthy relationships with people who can walk alongside them and help carry their burdens.

Some people want the blessings of God, but only on their own terms, with little or no commitment to Him or His people. That is not to say we won't help where we can, but we are generally more effective in helping those who are willing to take steps toward change themselves. Unfortunately, there are also those who prey upon well-meaning people with no intention of changing the behaviors that contributed to their situation in the first place. Life truly begins when we turn to God. We fool no one but ourselves if we think otherwise.

Consider Paul's reaction in dealing with the Jews who opposed him for saying that Jesus was the Messiah:

“But when they opposed and insulted him, Paul shook the dust from his clothes and said, “Your blood be upon your own heads—I am innocent. From now on I will go preach to the Gentiles.”

Everyone deserves the opportunity to hear the Gospel message, but if they are not ready to receive it, there comes a time when you move on to those who are willing to listen. Sometimes there is an expectation that we are to help everyone at all costs, but help is not truly help if it fails to address the real problem. If people continually reject the solution God offers, there is only so much we can do. God never forces anyone to receive Him, and neither should we. We lovingly present the truth, pray for them, and entrust them to the Lord.

Tough words... but necessary ones.